The most expensive mistake in divorce isn’t about who keeps what — it’s letting conflict lead the first conversations. When things escalate, costs rise fast, especially since most judges require mediation before trial, meaning you may pay for attorneys and a mediator. Starting with mediation protects your finances, reduces stress, and helps you move forward with clarity and respect.

Divorce mediation can save you thousands in legal fees, protect your co-parenting relationship, and help you move on faster. Here’s how to avoid the $20,000 mistake most couples make.

Many people rush into divorce without realizing the long-term consequences. This blog explores the most common divorce regrets — from financial fallout to the impact on kids — and how mediation can help couples avoid these mistakes.