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How Divorce Mediation Works When Power Feels Unequal
There's always power in a marriage. Who decides what's worth fighting about. Who apologizes first. Who handles the money – or the silence.

Beth Carrier
10 min read


Financial Infidelity in Divorce: When Money Becomes a Secret Weapon
They say money can't buy happiness – but money secrets can absolutely end a marriage. According to a national poll from the National Endowment for Financial Education, roughly two in five adults who've combined finances with a partner admit to committing some act of financial deception, and the vast majority say it affected the relationship in some way.

Beth Carrier
7 min read


The Real Cost of Divorce Mediation — and Why Waiting Costs Even More
When people ask me about the cost of divorce mediation, they're usually thinking about one number: the mediator's fee. That's certainly an important part of the decision – but it's not the whole picture.

Beth Carrier
7 min read


Divorce Mediation Without Attorneys? Wait… What?
"I wish I knew about PivotPoint Resolutions before we hired attorneys." I can't tell you how many times I've heard that sentence – almost always followed by regret over how much time, money, and peace a couple lost along the way. Most people assume divorce automatically means two attorneys, two retainers, and one long, expensive battle. So when someone hears that divorce mediation without lawyers is even an option, the reaction is usually the same: wait… what?

Beth Carrier
7 min read


An Open Letter to My Ex’s New Girlfriend: A Mother’s Perspective
If your kids' other parent has started dating someone new, it's normal to feel protective, anxious, jealous, or even replaced, especially when children are involved. Many parents wonder whether they should contact the new partner, write a letter, or simply stay silent.

Beth Carrier
7 min read


How to Co-Parent When Your Ex Has a New Partner (+ an Open Letter to the New Girlfriend)
The healthiest way to co-parent when your ex has a new partner is to establish clear boundaries, communicate before introductions happen, protect your children from adult conflict, and put important expectations in writing. You usually cannot control who your ex dates, but you can control how your co-parenting relationship adapts to that change.

Beth Carrier
12 min read


Divorce Regrets: What People Wish They Knew Before Filing
Most people do not regret getting divorced. What they regret is how they handled the divorce process – making decisions too quickly, spending too much on legal conflict, fighting over issues that didn't matter, or allowing emotions to shape parenting and financial decisions. Many later describe these lessons as the things I wish I knew before divorce, and understanding the most common divorce regrets can help you make choices you'll feel better about years from now.

Beth Carrier
10 min read


Living Together During Divorce: A Mediator’s Guide to Staying Sane Under One Roof
For many couples, "separating" doesn't mean living in separate homes – at least not right away. With housing costs high and interest rates elevated, living together during divorce has become increasingly common. Some do it to avoid financial strain; others want to maintain stability for their children while they work out long-term plans.

Beth Carrier
8 min read


Idaho Spousal Support: Why There’s No “Standard Formula” and How Mediation Protects Your Future
Spousal support is often the most stressful 'unknown' in a divorce. Because Idaho doesn't use a standard calculator, your financial future is often left to a judge's discretion. Watch our latest video breakdown of the 6 legal factors that determine support and see how mediation provides a peaceful, predictable alternative for Treasure Valley families.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


Spring Divorce Mediation: Why Uncertain Times Can Still Be the Right Time to Move Forward
As spring brings renewal, many families are still carrying uncertainty. Rising costs, market volatility, and everyday stress can make major life decisions feel even heavier. But growth does not wait for perfect conditions. Discover how spring divorce mediation can help create clarity, reduce conflict, and provide a calm, child-centered path forward during uncertain times.

Beth Carrier
4 min read


Child-Focused Divorce Mediation: Why Mediation Protects Children During Divorce
Divorce can be one of the most challenging transitions a family faces, especially when children are involved. Child-focused divorce mediation helps parents reduce conflict, create thoughtful parenting plans, and build cooperative co-parenting relationships. By focusing on practical solutions rather than courtroom battles, mediation protects children’s emotional well-being and helps families move forward with stability and respect.

Beth Carrier
3 min read


Amicable Divorce Boise Couples Are Choosing More Than Ever - Here’s Why
More couples are choosing an amicable divorce in Boise as an alternative to costly and adversarial court battles. Learn how mediation helps families separate with less conflict, greater privacy, and a clearer path forward.

Beth Carrier
11 min read


Divorce Mediation in January: Why Clarity Arrives After the Holidays
January is when clarity arrives. After the holidays fade, many couples begin searching for divorce mediation in January—not out of panic, but intention. This post explores why January is the most common time to choose mediation and how couples can move forward calmly, privately, and without court.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


New Year, New Peace: How to Begin an Amicable Divorce Through Mediation
The new year often brings clarity. For couples considering divorce, amicable divorce mediation offers a way to separate respectfully while protecting the co-parenting relationship. Here’s how to start the new year with peace and structure.

Beth Carrier
8 min read


Amicable Divorce During the Holidays: How to Navigate Big Decisions with Care
Thinking about an amicable divorce during the holidays? Many couples quietly reach this decision in December. Here’s how to navigate it respectfully — without turning it into a battle.

Beth Carrier
3 min read


Co-Parenting After Divorce: Why Mediation Sets the Foundation for a Healthy Future
Divorce is more than the end of a marriage — it’s the start of a new chapter in parenting. With about 40% of first marriages ending in divorce in the U.S., the way you co-parent after separation will ripple through your children’s future milestones. Mediation offers a roadmap: respectful communication, clear agreements, and genuine cooperation. Choose the path that preserves your child’s memories, not burdens them with conflict.

Beth Carrier
3 min read


Online Divorce Mediation: A Faster, Kinder, More Affordable Way to Move Forward
Online divorce mediation offers a faster, more affordable, and more private alternative to traditional litigation. In this guide, learn how online mediation works, what it costs, which topics can be resolved virtually, and why more couples are choosing this modern, respectful path. If you want clarity, control, and a calmer way forward, virtual mediation may be the right next step.

Beth Carrier
4 min read


What Divorce Mediation Feels Like (When It’s Working)
Divorce mediation doesn’t feel like a courtroom — it feels like a conversation. It’s structured but human, calm but real. At PivotPoint Resolutions™, I help couples navigate tough conversations with clarity, compassion, and even moments of laughter. Because mediation isn’t about fighting — it’s about finding a way forward that protects your peace, your family, and your future.

Beth Carrier
3 min read


Reluctant Spouse Divorce: When One Spouse Is Ready to Mediate — and the Other Isn’t
A reluctant spouse divorce happens when one partner is ready to separate and the other isn’t. Learn how mediation helps couples navigate this difference with calm, clarity, and respect — without escalating conflict or delay.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


The Stories We Tell Ourselves About Divorce
We all carry stories about divorce — stories about failure, blame, or regret. But those stories don’t have to define you. Learn how mediation helps couples replace guilt and judgment with understanding, and write a new story about divorce — one grounded in respect, clarity, and emotional growth.

Beth Carrier
2 min read
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