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Divorcing With Pets: Why Fido Deserves a Better Custody Plan Than You Think
Most courts treat pets like property in divorce — but your dog or cat deserves more. Here’s how mediation gives you the chance to create a fair, loving pet custody plan that works for everyone.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


Weaponized Parenting: The Divorce Tactic That Hurts Kids Most
Weaponized parenting is a toxic divorce tactic where one parent uses the children as leverage to gain an upper hand. It damages kids emotionally, disrupts co-parenting, and can derail mediation. Here’s how to recognize it—and why it’s so important to keep kids out of the fight.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


Don’t Divorce in the DMs: How Social Media Divorce Wars Can Derail Mediation (and What to Do Instead)
Social media divorce wars may feel like a quick outlet for your anger, but they can destroy trust, derail mediation, and even impact custody agreements. Here’s how to avoid turning your online life into a legal nightmare—and what to post (or not) while you’re working toward resolution.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


California Divorce Mediation: Why Going Online Could Save Your Sanity (and Your Wallet)
Divorce in California doesn’t have to be costly or chaotic. Learn how online divorce mediation California couples trust can save time, money, and stress — while meeting the state’s legal requirements. PivotPoint Resolutions guides you through property division, parenting plans, and spousal support in a way that works with California’s divorce process.

Beth Carrier
3 min read


Amicable Divorce Without a Lawyer: What Men Need to Know
You don’t have to turn your divorce into a war. If you're a man in your 40s or 50s facing a peaceful separation, here's how to move forward without spending thousands on attorneys.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


Mediation Mistakes to Avoid: Lessons from Real Cases
Mediation can save time, money, and emotional stress—but only if it’s done right. Too often, couples rush the process, show up unprepared, or let emotions take control, leading to costly setbacks. In this blog, we share real-life lessons from mediation cases to help you avoid these common mistakes and achieve a smoother, more successful divorce resolution.

Beth Carrier
3 min read


Dear Friends, Stop Telling People to "Lawyer Up"
When a friend shares they’re going through a divorce, many people instinctively say, “You need to lawyer up.” While this advice comes from a place of care, it can unintentionally set them on a costly, combative path. Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. In this blog, we explore why telling someone to “lawyer up” often does more harm than good—and how suggesting mediation instead can lead to a smoother, more empowering resolution.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


How to Co-Parent When Your Ex Has a New Partner (+ an Open Letter to the New Girlfriend)
When your ex has a new partner, co-parenting can get complicated—fast. Emotions run high, boundaries get blurry, and your kids are caught in the middle. In this blog, you’ll learn how to protect your children, set healthy co-parenting rules, and cope with the challenges of new relationships. Plus, don’t miss the open letter to my ex’s new girlfriend—a raw, heartfelt perspective you’ll want to read.

Beth Carrier
3 min read


An Open Letter to My Ex’s New Girlfriend: A Mother’s Perspective
Co-parenting is complicated, especially when new partners enter the picture. This open letter to my ex’s new girlfriend is an honest, heartfelt message about protecting my children, setting boundaries, and finding mutual respect in a blended family. If you’ve ever wondered what to say—or how to feel—when someone new steps into your kids’ lives, this is for you.

Beth Carrier
1 min read


Mediation vs Litigation Divorce: Why One Path Saves You Money (and Sanity)
Divorce doesn’t have to be a courtroom battle that drains your bank account and destroys your peace of mind. In my latest blog, I break down the reality of mediation vs litigation divorce—explaining why the traditional attorney-led route often leaves couples with massive legal bills and lingering conflict, while direct mediation offers a faster, cheaper, and kinder way to move forward. Discover how you can take control of your divorce and protect your future without stepping

Beth Carrier
2 min read


The Quiet Trauma of Divorce Court and Children: What Kids Won’t Tell You
This powerful short film gives voice to children experiencing their parents’ divorce. Through candid interviews, kids share what it feels like to be caught between two worlds, offering raw insight into the emotions they often hide. SPLIT – The Early Years is a moving reminder of why protecting children from conflict matters—and why choosing mediation can make all the difference.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


Mediation: The Quiet Revolution That’s Ending Ugly Divorces
Divorce doesn’t have to be a battlefield. Mediation is quietly transforming how couples separate—saving money, reducing stress, and keeping families out of court. Discover how this simple shift can turn a painful process into a peaceful resolution—and why more couples are choosing this path.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


Think Mediation Agreements Aren’t Legally Binding? Think Again.
A mediation agreement isn’t just a “handshake deal.” When done right—and filed with the court—it’s every bit as legal and enforceable as a divorce litigated by two high-priced attorneys. Here’s what you need to know.

Beth Carrier
3 min read


The First Year After Divorce with Kids Is Hard—But You're Stronger Than You Think
No matter how “amicable” the split, the first year after divorce—especially with kids—is a minefield of emotions, logistics, and hard new beginnings. But there is a way through it, and mediation can help lay the groundwork.

Beth Carrier
3 min read


Want Revenge? Why Divorce Mediation and Revenge Don’t Mix
If your goal is to hurt your ex or win at all costs, mediation isn’t your path. But if you’re ready to stop the war and start building your future, keep reading.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


Don’t Blow Up the Bridge: Why 'How You Divorce' Matters for the Rest of Your Life
Divorce isn’t just about ending a marriage — it’s about setting the tone for the rest of your life. Here’s why how you handle your divorce matters, and how mediation helps you move forward without burning it all down.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


Why Keeping the House After Divorce Might Not Be the Victory You Think
Keeping the house after divorce feels like a win — but is it really? Before you fight for the keys, here’s what you need to know about the costs, trade‑offs, and smarter solutions that might serve your family better.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


The 5 Biggest Lies About Divorce (and What You Actually Need to Know)
Everyone seems to have advice about divorce — but much of it is flat-out wrong. Here are the 5 biggest lies you’ll hear, and what you actually need to know.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


What to Expect in Divorce Mediation: Your First Consultation, Explained
Wondering what really happens when you book your free consultation? Here’s what to expect — a confidential, one-on-one Zoom call, a quick and optional intake form, and no pressure. Just clarity, support, and answers to your questions.

Beth Carrier
2 min read


Why "Winning" Your Divorce Could Mean Everyone Loses
When it comes to divorce, many people approach it like a chess match — determined to outmaneuver and ‘win’ at all costs. But in family matters, a win-lose mindset often leaves everyone worse off, especially the kids. This blog unpacks the myth of ‘winning’ your divorce, what you should really aim for, and how mediation helps everyone move forward with dignity — and a plan that works.

Beth Carrier
2 min read
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