What to Expect in Divorce Mediation: Your First Consultation, Explained
- Beth Carrier
- Jul 17, 2025
- 2 min read
I see you.
You’ve been scrolling my site, reading about mediation, maybe even picturing what a calmer divorce process could look like. But when it comes time to actually clicking “Book Your Free Consultation”… you hesitate.
Totally normal. And here’s the thing — I want you to feel absolutely comfortable taking that first step. So let me walk you through exactly what happens when you book your consultation, so there are no surprises.
It’s Just You (for Now)
You don’t need to have your spouse on the Zoom call with you. In fact, most of the time, the first consultation is one-on-one — just you and me. This is your chance to ask questions, share what’s on your mind, and learn what mediation could look like for your family.
If your spouse wants to schedule their own consultation later, that’s perfectly fine. There’s no rule that both parties have to be on the same call at this stage.
What to Expect on the Call
Your consultation will be a 30-minute Zoom call with me. I prefer that we’re both on camera, because it helps me connect with you and pick up on things that matter beyond just words — but if you’re not comfortable with that, just let me know. My goal is for you to feel at ease and supported from the very first step.
The Intake Form: Quick and Optional Where It Counts
Once you book your consultation, you’ll fill out a short intake form.
Part 1 is simply your contact info — so I know who you are and how to reach you.
Part 2 asks about your situation — but here’s the important part: Part 2 is completely optional.
If you’re not ready to share those details yet, you can skip it. We can talk about anything you’re comfortable discussing once we’re on the call.
Everything You Share Is Confidential
I know how personal — and emotional — these conversations can be. Rest assured, anything you tell me during your consultation stays between us. This is your safe space to talk openly without judgment.
No Obligation — Just Information
This consultation is free because it’s not about making decisions yet. It’s about giving you the information you need to decide if mediation is right for you. There’s no commitment, no pressure, no hard sell — just clarity.
Ready to Take That First Step?
I know how hard it can feel to even start this process. But you don’t have to have it all figured out before you reach out — that’s what I’m here for.
So if you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it.
Let’s talk about how you can move forward with clarity, confidence, and peace of mind.
