Thinking about an amicable divorce during the holidays? Many couples quietly reach this decision in December. Here’s how to navigate it respectfully — without turning it into a battle.

Starting the divorce conversation is one of the hardest parts—it’s the moment most people fear. But it doesn’t have to be explosive. With the right ground rules and a few simple scripts, you can have that first talk in a way that’s clear, kind, and productive. This guide walks you through a 30-minute plan to set the tone, share your truth, and take the next step without turning your kitchen table into a battlefield.

LGBTQ divorce comes with unique challenges—from parenting plans to property division. Mediation gives same-sex couples privacy, control, and the power to create fair solutions that reflect their real lives, not just what the law narrowly defines.