When a friend shares they’re going through a divorce, many people instinctively say, “You need to lawyer up.” While this advice comes from a place of care, it can unintentionally set them on a costly, combative path. Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. In this blog, we explore why telling someone to “lawyer up” often does more harm than good—and how suggesting mediation instead can lead to a smoother, more empowering resolution.