Remember What You Learned From Ted Lasso: Be a Goldfish in Divorce Mediation
- Beth Carrier
- Sep 16
- 2 min read
Why You Should Remember What You Learned From Ted Lasso
When Ted Lasso aired, it felt like the world exhaled. For a little while, we shared something lighthearted and hopeful. You didn’t need to know anything about soccer—the lessons were universal: optimism, forgiveness, humility, and teamwork.
Divorce might feel like the opposite of that spirit, but mediation can bring it back. The very principles that made Ted Lasso so beloved are the same ones that can make divorce less painful and more collaborative.
Be a Goldfish—The Most Important Lesson for Divorce Mediation
One of the most famous Ted Lasso quotes is: “You know what the happiest animal on earth is? A goldfish. You know why? It’s got a 10-second memory. Be a goldfish.”
In divorce mediation, this advice is golden. Holding onto every past wrong, every angry text, every resentment only makes the process harder. Being a goldfish doesn’t mean ignoring real issues—it means letting go of grudges so you can focus on solutions that move you forward.
From the Locker Room to the Mediation Room
Teamwork matters. Just like the Richmond team, divorcing couples need to work toward a shared goal—even if that goal is simply a fair and peaceful resolution.
Kindness counts. Ted’s relentless kindness wasn’t weakness; it was strength. In mediation, empathy helps couples move past gridlock.
Believe. The iconic yellow sign in the locker room wasn’t about soccer—it was about hope. Believing you can get through this transition with dignity is half the battle.
A Better Way Forward
Mediation is about more than splitting assets or drafting custody schedules. It’s about reshaping the future. And if you remember what you learned from Ted Lasso, it’s that kindness, resilience, and the ability to “be a goldfish” can turn even the toughest challenges into something hopeful.
At PivotPoint Resolutions™, we help families pivot from conflict to clarity—with a little Ted Lasso spirit thrown in. Ready to take a Ted Lasso approach to your divorce—kindness, resilience, and a little goldfish memory? Schedule your free consultation with PivotPoint Resolutions today.
