If the holidays are highlighting distance or tension in your marriage, you’re not alone. Many couples quietly “hold it together” through Thanksgiving, hoping things will feel different. But there is a way forward that doesn’t involve conflict or court. This article explores how an amicable divorce during the holidays can protect your peace, your finances, and your kids.

When it comes to divorce, many people approach it like a chess match — determined to outmaneuver and ‘win’ at all costs. But in family matters, a win-lose mindset often leaves everyone worse off, especially the kids. This blog unpacks the myth of ‘winning’ your divorce, what you should really aim for, and how mediation helps everyone move forward with dignity — and a plan that works.